Imagine this: You’re in your twenties, just starting your career. You fill out a form at work, naming your live-in significant other as the beneficiary of your retirement account. You start contributing to your retirement account, and it begins to grow. Fast forward 28 years – you’ve long since ended that relationship, lived a full life, and then died. But you never changed that beneficiary designation, and now that ex-partner is entitled to your million-dollar retirement nest egg while your family is left with nothing.
Sound far-fetched? It’s not. This is precisely what happened in a high-profile lawsuit involving Margaret Losinger and her former boyfriend, Jeffrey Rolison, and his estate and Proctor and Gamble, the Company he worked for during those 28 years.
Here’s a closer look at this shocking real-life story, the lessons we can learn, and how having a trusted advisor at every stage of life can protect you from making a million-dollar mistake like this or any other mistakes that you just might be overlooking.
What Happened?
In the 1980s, Jeffrey Rolison dated Margaret Sjostedt, and the two lived together. Rolison worked at a Procter & Gamble (P&G) plant, where he signed up for a profit-sharing and savings plan. In 1987, he listed Sjostedt as the sole beneficiary of his retirement account. The relationship ended two years later, and both moved on. Sjostedt eventually married, taking on the last name Losinger.
Rolison, however, never updated his beneficiary designation on his retirement plan. In 2015, Rolison passed away at age 59, single and childless, with no will and no guidance on who should inherit his assets. His retirement account, which had grown to $1.15 million, was still designated to Losinger, under her former name of Sjostedt.
Rolison’s brothers, Brian and Richard, were shocked when they learned that Losinger was the beneficiary of Rolison’s retirement account. They believed their brother wouldn’t have intended for his long-ago ex-girlfriend to receive his retirement savings. The brothers filed a lawsuit against P&G and Losinger in 2017, trying to get the money directed to Rolison’s estate.
On April 29, 2024, an appeals court issued an order, ruling that Losinger was entitled to the money. After fighting for four years, Rolison’s family lost their claim, the million dollars in Rolison’s retirement account, and all the legal fees and court costs invested in the fight.
Why Even “Simple Estates” Require Trusted Guidance
Before we go on, let’s clarify what estate planning is, how beneficiary accounts factor in and why you likely need the guidance of a trusted advisor, even if you think you don’t have an estate, your estate is “simple,” or you don’t really need an estate plan.
What estate planning is. Many people consider estate planning something only needed by the wealthy or the elderly. As you can see from this case, that’s just not true. Rolison wasn’t wealthy when he chose to name Losinger as the beneficiary of his retirement account. And he probably wasn’t wealthy when they broke up. Nevertheless, not having an estate plan or the trusted guidance he would have needed to know what he needed, he ended up making his ex-girlfriend a wealthy woman and cost his siblings quite a lot of time and money in the process.
At the most basic level, estate planning is about ensuring that all your assets pass to the people you want, in the way you want, with the right guidance and support so that this happens with the least amount of effort, cost and mess possible. And it’s also about ensuring that if you become incapacitated, your wishes are known, honored and able to be followed with the least amount of cost and the most amount of privacy possible.
Most importantly, estate planning is about your choices and your freedom. So, how important is it to you that you have a say in what happens to you, your hard-earned assets, and your loved ones when the time comes? If it’s important, you need an estate plan. It’s truly as simple as that. Otherwise, the government gets to decide on your behalf. When you create an estate plan, your wishes override the government’s plan for you and your loved ones.
How Beneficiary-Designated Accounts Factor Into Your Estate Plan
Beneficiary-designated accounts – like retirement accounts or life insurance – are part of your estate plan. Beneficiary designations override the government’s plan for you, and they also override whatever you might have written in your will or trust, if you created one.
From the case we’ve shared here, we learn that Rolison did not have a will, but it would not have made a difference even if he had. Beneficiary designations come before any will or trust, even if you made the designations years ago.
Beneficiary forms are powerful documents. They alone determine who gets your retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and bank accounts, often taking precedence over your will. If you filled out a beneficiary form years ago and haven’t updated it, the person named on that form will likely receive the assets, regardless of your current wishes. So the biggest takeaway from the Rolison/Losinger story is that beneficiary accounts are an integral part of your estate plan and should be reviewed on a regular basis. This is why we include a review of all of your accounts, your beneficiary designations and an inventory of all of your assets – plus we have updating programs for ongoing review.
Why You Need Regular Reviews of Your Accounts and Beneficiary Designations
Rolison’s case highlights the fact that it’s easy to forget about your beneficiary designations, especially if they were filled out years ago. However, the case also tells us that neglecting to update your accounts can lead to unintended consequences and legal battles for your loved ones.
In Rolison’s case, his brothers argued that P&G failed to adequately inform him about his beneficiary designation. They claimed the company provided insufficient warnings when it changed service providers and in its monthly statements. However, most companies do not remind you to review and update your beneficiary accounts. When was the last time your bank reminded you to review the beneficiary designations on your checking account (if ever)? What about your life insurance company? And if not, have you taken it upon yourself to check your beneficiary designations regularly? Your life is busy enough. Is this a priority?
If not, it should be. In its decision, the court stated that it ruled in favor of P&G and Losinger because the responsibility for keeping beneficiary information current rests on the individual.
We Do the Heavy Lifting So You Don’t Have To
When it comes to planning for your death and incapacity, we do the heavy lifting for you, freeing you to concentrate on your responsibilities to your family, your work, and yourself. At Davidek Law Firm, we help you create a Life & Legacy Plan so that your loved ones stay out of court and conflict and that your plan works when you need it to. Once you’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, your property protected, and your plan updated throughout your lifetime.
This article is a service of Davidek Law Firm, PLLC. We don’t just draft documents; we ensure that families and business owners make informed and empowered decisions about life and death, for themselves and the people they love.
